I feel like sometimes it’s easy to lose yourself. In your job. In your friends. Just in life really…
It’s easy to be influenced by those around you, as much as no one wants to admit it…most of us are guilty of that.
It’s easy to find your identity in what you do rather than who you really are at the core.
Being in this industry is a funny thing. Don’t get me wrong…I love it more than anything. BUT…yes there is a but. It also has it’s downfalls…
And this is all just me speaking for myself and my experience…not saying it’s like this for everyone because I’m sure it’s not.
I’m trying to get back to the basics.
I’m trying to get back to the place where blogging was FUN and I didn’t care what people thought about it.
I’m trying to get back to the place where I’m not constantly comparing my work to other people and then getting down about it.
I’m trying to get back to the place where my work is 100% about my clients and not about the other photographers viewing it.
I’m just really trying to get back to the core of who I am and why I started this business in the first place.
I’ve always loved this time of year. It’s the time of year where things slow down a bit. I actually have time to process the entire wedding season that went by in a blur. I get to write down on paper the things I want to change…the things I want to improve on. It’s a time when I get to set out new goals and really challenge myself. It’s also a time that I get to look back at all the mistakes I’ve made and really learn from them. There was really no solid point to this blog post and sometimes that’s the way I like it…this is the way I use to blog…I miss that. Haha maybe some of you don’t miss it, but I want my blog to go back to the basics too…and if that means writing pointless blog posts about my life, well then that’s just the way it’s going to be. : )
It’s time to go back to the basics. Happy Friday everyone.
do it! I’ll still read your blog, even if it’s all girly and introspective… 😉
Love your heart sissy. The fall changes, winter holidays, slow time are all great for getting back to basics just like you say. Everyone shares these struggles. Thanks for being honest about them. So proud of you everyday.
I have been the same way comparing myself to everyone and getting down about it. Very encouraging!
Loved this blog post! :)!
I think that is a great idea:) 🙂 It is always good to follow what is in your heart and not care about what others are thinking:) I love your work and blog! You are very inspiring!
Great thoughts you shared! I have been trying to do the same myself!
l o v e, keep up the good work. =)
Love this post. I’m just starting up my business and reading this was a great reminder to not be so hard on myself or concerned about other while I’m getting things going. Thanks for this!
agreed. it’s so depressing when my identity is wrapped up in my business, getting sucked into the pit of needing the approval of my peers. there’s no freedom in that. it’s a daily struggle, but a worthy one.
Aw. Thanks Tonhya. I really appreciated that. 🙂
Tonhya, I have never written a comment before, but I look through your photography website often and I wanted to let you know that your work is absolutely breathtaking. I am a new photographer and I too find myself comparing my work to other people’s work and it can be so discouraging…so I know what you mean. Thank you for being honest and thank you for writing about getting back to the basics!
Well said. I definitely get sucked into the photography bubble with comparing my work to others a lot.. it’s good to take a step back and just create! Your photos are always incredible and inspiring so just remember how talented you are and you’ll continue to produce phenomenal work. 🙂
I love your work. You’re inspiring, fresh & you take such a personal devotion to your clients. I love it & love what you do.
Tonhya….thanks for this post. While not in the same business as you, I too feel that I compare myself to others quite often. Most of the time to my detriment. It’s good to see what others are doing, but I have vowed to not let it break down my self-confidence and use it only to challenge myself to improve what I produce. I love and appreciate your openness and honesty with everything you do. Thanks for sharing….you truly do make a difference in this world, not just in your work, but as YOU! Keep it up!
Beautiful reminder. We work for our clients, people getting married… not for other photographers at all. You make gorgeous photos.
ah yes, I hear you. thanks for sharing 🙂